If you want men to ask women out, you have to stop getting offended by the men who shoot their shot You're not upset at being asked out, you're just insulted that he thought he had a chance and you're making your own narcissism his problem

Balls still exist Galas still exist House parties still exist Dinner parties still exist Book clubs still exist Not going to these things isn’t a result of “this is what they took from you,” it’s a matter of either not hosting them or not getting an invite

Guys just have house parties No one is stopping you